’Tis the Etsy holiday shopping season
(but only for the hets)
I have an account on Etsy. My account’s gender field is set to ’Female’.
On the home page there’s an “I’m shopping for my…” widget that helps the user find suggested gifts for the important people in their life. Here’s what that widget looks like when I load etsy.com
:

Listen, Etsy, babe, I don’t have a boyfriend or a husband. I have a girlfriend. Where’s that button?
Is it not there because of what my account’s gender field is set to? Is that why you’re showing me ’boyfriend’ and ’husband’ buttons?
If so, absolutely get fucked with your heteronormative bullshit.