(Insert all the usual caveats here: I'm speaking from my own experience, and it might not match yours. It may be that engaging in the moment, when they're still processing, is more likely to lead to a good outcome than choosing to disengage, etc., etc.) (Twitter)

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(Insert all the usual caveats here: I'm speaking from my own experience, and it might not match yours. It may be that engaging in the moment, when they're still processing, is more likely to lead to a good outcome than choosing to disengage, etc., etc.)